There’s a lie we tell ourselves when something really matters – and it sounds sensible enough that we rarely challenge it. “I’ll do it when life calms down.” But life doesn’t calm down. It fills every available gap, expands into […]
Why Judgement Feels Powerful – and Why It Hurts
You can say exactly what you see and still not be judging – and that distinction changes everything. Most people think judgement starts with harsh words or sharp opinions. It doesn’t. It starts far earlier, in a tiny, almost invisible […]
Clients, Colleagues, and the Cost of “Being Nice”
One of the weirdest places burnout hides is in the blurred lines between connection and obligation. Sometimes a friendship with a client starts to feel a bit too familiar. Sometimes a colleague leans too hard, too often. Sometimes we say […]
Emotional Labour Is Still Labour – Even When No One Thanks You
We don’t always mean to become someone’s emotional anchor. Sometimes it just happens. Maybe you were kind. Maybe you were consistent. Maybe you were the one who showed up when everything in their life was falling apart. And slowly, quietly, […]
The Hidden Power of Launching Before You’re Finished
There’s a new course I’m running right now. Forty weeks long. Big topic. Big commitment. And if I’m being totally honest – I haven’t finished writing it yet. The old me would have panicked at this. In fact, the actual […]
The One Word That Reclaims Your Power
Someone I know (let’s call them Alex) got asked to cover a colleague’s shift last week. It wasn’t convenient. They’d already booked the day off. They’d had plans for actual rest. But the message came in with all the usual […]
When Helping Goes Too Far – A Trap Every Coach Needs to Notice
Something happened recently that knocked me slightly off balance. Not dramatically. Not catastrophically. Just enough to make my nervous system tilt. I received a message that landed at the wrong angle on the wrong day. In the grand scheme of […]
The Hidden Cost of Judging Everyone Else
Let me tell you about a man I used to know. We’ll call him Dave. Because that’s his name. Dave wasn’t a bad person. He wasn’t cruel in the obvious ways. He didn’t shout or hit or rage. He just […]
What Yellow Cars, Bees, and Confetti Have in Common
I want to tell you about an experiment I have been running recently – one that has quietly shifted the way I see the world. You may already have seen parts of it on social media. If not, you will […]
The real reason your practice isn’t growing (and how to fix it this week)
Let me guess: you want to grow your practice… but somehow an entire week has passed and you haven’t done a single thing to market it. No email, no ad, no blog, no follow-up. Just vibes and “I’ll do it […]
