The topic today is all about stopping those compulsions and taking control of feeling better, about giving up those bad habits and this is in response to an e-mail from someone who sent in a great big list of things […]
You’re Gonna Have to Face it. You’re Addicted to Love.
For those of you who have perhaps had the experience of falling in love very quickly it’s worth consider the actual stages of love that you might be experiencing. Is it the true spending the rest of your life with […]
A Dramatic Way of Life
A while back I began asking my clients if they enjoyed their job. The reason why I began asking this question is because there seem to be a pattern between job happiness and life happiness. What I mean is the […]
Setting Achievable Goals
If you’ve ever had a goal about relationships that gave you trouble in the past, you may simply need to adjust it to make it more realistic and achievable. So, you may have had a goal in the past such […]
Not Letting Setbacks Set you Back
This comes from the presuppositions of N.L.P. If you’re familiar with those you’ve probably already guessed that the presupposition that related to the title of this article is: ‘there is no failure, only feedback’. The presuppositions are convenient beliefs that […]
Me and My Personality Disorders
If you have a personality disorder, you may experience some or more or all of the following: self-injury or attempted suicide, strong feelings of anger, anxiety, or depression that lasts for several hours, impulsive behaviour, drug or alcohol abuse, feelings […]
Keeping Calm and Demonstrating Control
Posture is really important. We all know posture of a depressed person and you can see them a mile away head down, shoulders down. A person with lack of confidence again you can see it oozing out of their body […]
All in the nick of time, space and energy
People automatically and without realising become very talented at moving their problems through time, space and energy. You might know someone, who is particularly good at generalising and stating that things always work out this way, or everybody does that. […]
A Master Practitioner of Problems
Sometimes overcoming challenges is easy and sometimes less so. A great strategy for taking control of challenges is to do the absolute opposite of trying to get rid of it and instead study the skills you need and use in […]
