Last year when I was feeling particularly overworked, I went to visit a relatively well know therapist who is famous for having performed past life regression therapy on various celebrities. Although I didn’t see the therapist for this kind of […]
Using Failure As An Excuse
One of the key things I tell my clients time and time again is that the difference between successful people and those that are “failures” is that successful people do not believe their own excuses. They just don’t believe them. […]
Do We Ever Really Change?
How much do we really change? This is a question that came into my mind this week when I heard someone mention that old saying “a leopard never changes its spots.” We know that from 0-7 years are imprint years […]
Yes, I am Quitting My Work
Most of us have been in a position where the time has come to give notice in our job. There are always emotions that go with this- some may be relief, spite, fear or excitement. I’ve been working on People […]
The Psychology of Sports
Sports is such an arena, where apart from the physical fitness, mental soundness is equally important, to keep a sportsperson going successfully. You may ask that each and every field of work equally demands both physical and mental fitness. True, […]
Public Speaking with NLP
We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence therefore is not an Act but it is a Habit. Nobody is a born natural speaker. Speaking is a habit in which we excel as we grow up. Fear of public speaking is […]
Positive Relationships with NLP
We, humans are born to be together. To establish bonds, it is essential that we show love, care and responsibility to others. The key to be close to anybody is safety and trust. If you are safe in someone’s company […]
I Love NLP But I’m Not a Nerd!
NLP has taken the therapy world by storm and quite rightly so. It creates rapid lasting change and you don’t need a PHD to learn the simple skills. There are many, many trainers and training company’s pumping out Practitioner by […]
Self Esteem
Morris Rosenberg states that self esteem is formulated in 3 ways (1) reflected appraisals, (2) social comparison, (3) self attribution. Reflected appraisal comes from Mead and Cooleys’ idea that if other respect us and look up to us in some […]
Meta Programmes and Their Uses
The word Meta means after beyond or later. In NLP the word Meta programmes are some of the filters that decide which bits of information coming in you pay attention to, the way you process that information and how you […]