How should express to someone else that we think they may have a mental health problem? And should we? There are some things that we don’t raise, even if we are clinically qualified to do so you don’t tell your […]
Dealing with Annoying People (Part Two)
This month’s article has a good story attached to it on how to deal with annoying people. Why can’t we just be honest and tell them that they are annoying? This is not always an easy thing to do because […]
Dealing with Annoying People (Part One)
We’re going to be discussing how to deal with annoying people. I am going to make a recommendation to you that you start to just slightly change your focus now. What can happen when we’re dealing with an annoying person […]
Stop taking on Others Responsibilities (Part Two)
It is true that being a responsible human being is not always a good thing! When you are someone who is good at taking responsibility, you can enjoy the feeling of empowerment and great levels of control in your life. […]
Stop taking on others Responsibilities (Part One)
There are benefits to taking responsibility but it is a balancing act. It can make you seem like a dependable, reliable and committed person and those are all positive attributes. People are going to warm to you and you’re going […]
Turn Down Stress and Anxiety
It is possible to reduce the distress and discomfort that comes with negative experiences by making some simple shifts in our words and language. Often, we shrink what we are communicating because we want to communicate more quickly and easily. […]
Presuppositions
Everything that you need to succeed is already contained within you, you already have the resources inside. This is a presupposition of NLP that tells you that everything you need in order to be successful, is already within. A while […]
Rapport Building
A basic and fundamental technique in NLP is rapport building. Many people fixate on the strategies used to gain rapport but forget that it is equally as important to have the ability to identify once you have achieved it! In […]
Talking Seriously about Humour – Part Two
It’s not always appropriate to use humour as a break state.There are times when it may feel as if the best thing you could do right now is to make a client laugh yet there are times when you shouldn’t […]
Talking Seriously about Humour – Part One
Is humour an appropriate way to interrupt someone’s emotional state? I have recently completed an NLP practitioner training course and have sent some wonderful new people off into the world. A question about humour in sessions came up during the […]