How should express to someone else that we think they may have a mental health problem? And should we? There are some things that we don’t raise, even if we are clinically qualified to do so you don’t tell your […]
Dealing with Annoying People (Part Two)
This month’s article has a good story attached to it on how to deal with annoying people. Why can’t we just be honest and tell them that they are annoying? This is not always an easy thing to do because […]
Dealing with Annoying People (Part One)
We’re going to be discussing how to deal with annoying people. I am going to make a recommendation to you that you start to just slightly change your focus now. What can happen when we’re dealing with an annoying person […]
Stop taking on Others Responsibilities (Part Two)
It is true that being a responsible human being is not always a good thing! When you are someone who is good at taking responsibility, you can enjoy the feeling of empowerment and great levels of control in your life. […]
Stop taking on others Responsibilities (Part One)
There are benefits to taking responsibility but it is a balancing act. It can make you seem like a dependable, reliable and committed person and those are all positive attributes. People are going to warm to you and you’re going […]
Finding Your Purpose
Finding your purpose. There is a question in the world of NLP that we use, for what we call chunking up it’s where you go into a blue sky thinking mode – like a big project type idea. I want […]
When NOT to Make a Decision
It’s really important that you don’t make any major changes or commit to any sorts of decisions until you have got yourself away from the emotional impact of what is going on around you or in your family environment or in your work environment.
How to Improve Your Listening Skills (Part 2)
I want to focus today on both how it is that we become better listeners and also how it is that we calmed our own internal conversation such that we’re able to focus more effectively on the ones that we’re having in the outside world.
The Pursuit of Change
In this article, we will discuss how changed is possible even when you think it isn’t!
You Have Everything You Need – The Not NLP Video Podcast Episode 34
In NLP we have convent beliefs or ways of thinking about the world called ‘presuppositions’. One of these presuppositions is ‘You already have everything you need to succeed and to achieve your desired outcomes’. This one smacked me in the […]