When I book a consultation call with a client, there’s a sentence I say every single time. Most people attend somewhere between two and ten sessions. The average is around five to eight. You don’t need to keep coming until […]
He Wanted to Change the World – But Had No Time
Recently, I found myself in conversation with a well-known public figure who was completely in love with what we do. He believed in the mission. He valued the transformation. He’d experienced first-hand how NLP had helped him process trauma from […]
“I Am What I Am” – The Most Dangerous Sentence
He was the walking definition of chaos. Every course he attended, something went wrong. Not once. Not twice. Eight times. Illness. Broken cars. Poor internet. Sick children. A cow loose on the motorway. Always five minutes away – which, without […]
Stop Dating Cockwombles – And Stop Signing Them As Clients
You haven’t had a boyfriend in ages. Then someone shows interest. They text. They compliment you. They seem keen. And before you know it, you’re planning the wedding in your head… only to discover three weeks later that they are, […]
The Doorframe That Exposed My Excuses
For months, my front doorframe annoyed me. The hallway has no natural light. No windows. Zero UV. Which means the white gloss I once thought was a brilliant idea slowly turned nicotine yellow. Not “a bit off-white.” Full seventy-cigarettes-a-day energy. […]
What My 96-Year-Old Nan Taught Me About Resilience
Sometimes the people you least expect are already doing the work. Once a week, I drive my nan and grandad to visit my sister. It’s a short journey – about twenty minutes – but it’s long enough for patterns to […]
The Story You Tell Yourself Isn’t Always the One That Heals
There’s a particular kind of discomfort that doesn’t come from what happened. It comes from how we remember it. And more specifically, from how we need to remember it in order to survive. When Trauma Leaves a Quiet Aftertaste A […]
One Coffee, One Choice, and the Reason Most Coaches Quit Too Soon
There’s a moment in adulthood when you realise that not all danger looks dramatic. Sometimes it arrives quietly, wrapped in politeness, disguised as a harmless invitation for coffee. And often, the real threat isn’t what’s being asked – it’s what’s […]
Learning or Building? The Question That’s Keeping You Stuck
There’s a choice I see People Building franchisees trying to make all the time. And it’s a false one. It sounds sensible. Responsible, even. But it quietly keeps people stuck for years. The False Choice That Keeps You Spinning “Should […]
The Moment Meditation Works – And Why We Ruin It
There’s a strange moment that happens in meditation. You’re still awake. Still conscious. But something inside you loosens its grip. The Moment the Mind Finally Lets Go One minute your head is loud – replaying conversations, rewriting the day, reminding […]


