The topic today is all about stopping those compulsions and taking control of feeling better, about giving up those bad habits and this is in response to an e-mail from someone who sent in a great big list of things […]
Fear of The Fear – The Not NLP Podcast Episode 13
Fear can hold you back in life but even more so when the one thing scarier than the scary thing, is the fear of the scary thing! Often our perception of fear is far greater than the challenge itself but […]
You’re Gonna Have to Face it. You’re Addicted to Love.
For those of you who have perhaps had the experience of falling in love very quickly it’s worth consider the actual stages of love that you might be experiencing. Is it the true spending the rest of your life with […]
Do More of What Makes You Happy – The Not NLP Podcast Episode 12
How easy is it to do more of what makes you happy – I mean, it sounds simple enough right? If you want to be happier, just go ahead and do what you enjoy…the obstacle is very often TIME. Then […]
A Dramatic Way of Life
A while back I began asking my clients if they enjoyed their job. The reason why I began asking this question is because there seem to be a pattern between job happiness and life happiness. What I mean is the […]
Is Honesty Always the Best Policy? – The Not NLP Podcast Episode 11
Here we explore when honesty may or may not be the right skill to exercise and why it sometimes is avoided. (Sometimes we lie to protect other people’s emotions!) Watch on Youtube here: https://youtu.be/RzYbldUz7a4 Missed the previous show? Thought Infections – […]
Thought Infections – The Not NLP Podcast Episode 10
Muse wrote a song about thought contagions but I want to talk about thought infections. Could it be that a negative experience from the past could cause you to make decisions and evaluation in the future that are tainted by […]
Setting Achievable Goals
If you’ve ever had a goal about relationships that gave you trouble in the past, you may simply need to adjust it to make it more realistic and achievable. So, you may have had a goal in the past such […]
Not Letting Setbacks Set you Back
This comes from the presuppositions of N.L.P. If you’re familiar with those you’ve probably already guessed that the presupposition that related to the title of this article is: ‘there is no failure, only feedback’. The presuppositions are convenient beliefs that […]
